I can remember when those “What Would Jesus Do?” bracelets came out years ago. I was so incredibly excited to wear one: to proudly proclaim that I was a Christian. For a long while, I would get into a sticky situation, and that bracelet would remind me that how I react can most definitely hurt my witness. Unfortunately, like most trends the W.W.J.D. bracelets dissipated in popularity.
Nowadays, I wonder if producing “What Would Jesus WRITE?” stickers to put on computer screens might be a good idea. Is it just me, or are people… meaner… online? It’s as if removing the face-to-face contact and replacing it with a computer screen means you can no longer be held responsible for the words you write. Somehow, many seem to believe that hiding behind a keyboard makes it okay to say whatever they want.
I have seen countless rude and hostile remarks online that have been directed towards specific people. I have also witnessed complete strangers resort to name-calling and hate-spewing, most often over the silliest topics. And somehow we think this is okay! It’s time to change the norm.
The reality is that we are not exempt from the consequences of what we write online. While you may think saying something rude to a complete stranger is okay because no one knows it was you, we know for a FACT there is someone who knows.
Matthew 15:18 says, But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart- that’s what defiles you. I think we can also apply this to the things that come out of our keyboards, too. The fact of the matter is, anonymous or not, those words have the potential to create emotional scars that can last for years and sometimes lifetimes. Christ called us to a higher standard than that.
Maybe you’re reading this going “Oh girl, I know exactly what you’re talking about. So-and-so said something about me two years ago that really hurt me, and I can’t forget it.” Okay, then you understand why it is SO crucial that we start becoming more aware of our own virtual language! Do you think God really wants us to inflict that kind of emotional pain on someone? Do you think we can really get away with saying something mean without it affecting our testimony?
The truth is, whether we say something anonymously or not, God knows and sees it. And He has told us that What you do unto the least of these, you do unto Me, (Matthew 25:40). Or as my mother would say, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.”
So instead of cutting others down online, I want to challenge the body of Christ to live by this verse: Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear [or read!] them. Ephesians 4:29
Who knows, perhaps the good we spread can have an impact on the rest of the digital world.




Such practical advise! I love gmail because it gives the option to "undo" and I can even choose how many seconds I have to "think about it" before clicking on "undo". Emails have been added to the list of "things that do not come back":
1. the spoken word
2. the sped arrow
3. time passed
4. a neglected opportunity
5. emails
Thanks, Stephanie for getting us to "think"!
I eally enjoyed this Stephanie. Bad mouthing, gossip, backbiting is the same whether it comes out of our mouths or on our computer. Abba Daddy, Jesus and Holy Spirit are computer literate! It counts even on the computer.
Sorry for the typo! Using my son's computer…"I really enjoyed" was what I meant. Easy to make a mistake but once it's out there just like our words, you can't fix it once you hit SEND!
Alls I gotta say is: Tru dat, girl!
I have thought the rules for gossip & distasteful chatter only applied to the spoken word. And I was sorely wrong. Thank you so much for writing this & changing the way I now will.