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~An Indescribable Gift


Really, it’s all about the gifts.

It’s true. In our culture, the Christmas season is all wrapped up in the giving and getting of gifts. At the risk of dodging a few rotten tomatoes, I’ll say something further: There’s really nothing wrong with that.

After all, gift-giving is Scriptural. Check out this short list of Biblical gifts:

• Gold
• Frankincense
• Myrrh
• Costly perfume

(Matthew 2:11, NKJV; John 12:3, NKJV)


The very best gift I ever received was from the Three-in-One Himself: the gift of forgiveness.

Now, how about a novel idea? Have YOU ever considered giving the gift of forgiveness for Christmas?

If not, would you consider it now? You might already have a list of people who need this gift from you. For me, the list was titled “People I’m Holding a Grudge Against”, and sadly, that list contained the names of family members. Our families can be torn apart because we won’t give the gift of forgiveness.

So, what do you say? You could make your own list. Check it twice. Then, whether naughty or nice, you could mark them off.

Aw, come on. Give the gift, and feel the joy.

After all…’tis the season.

Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!

(2 Corinthians 9:15, NIV)

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This article has 28 comments
  • Rebecca Marchbanks 15.12.2010 7:47 am Reply

    Good stuff, Steph!

  • Susan Shipe 15.12.2010 11:58 am Reply

    I just love, love, love this short & simple editorial. Fabulous. Holy. Spiritual. Motivating. Inspiring. A word in due season.

    Merry Christmas Stephanie.

  • Angie White 15.12.2010 12:54 pm Reply

    This is GREAT! :)

  • LeadHership 16.12.2010 6:43 am Reply

    Thanks for the smack across my face. I needed it and I'm gonna do something about it. Keep keepin it real, girl. You rock! :D

  • Amanda 17.12.2010 4:32 am Reply

    This is great Stephanie, and goes right along with a conversation the husband I and I were having last night about a person we are having anger issues with. (As in, we constantly stay angry, and hold a grudge against this person - and yes, it is a family member.) Sigh, perhaps God is speaking to me, and I need to forgive and move on.

    • Stephanie Marchbanks 17.12.2010 5:44 am Reply

      Here, here! But alas, I know firsthand how hard it is to let it go. Praying, praying for you. Thank you for the privilege.

  • Kay 17.12.2010 6:02 am Reply

    Thanks Stephanie! We all need to start with forgiveness to find true happiness and joy!

  • adam bryant 17.12.2010 6:06 am Reply

    Stephanie, it never fails that when I read your writing, I, one feel very inspired to pursue the action you suggest. Two, I, enjoy reading your thoughts because it allows me to feel closer to you since I am so far away form you and your family. Have a Merry Christmas and TTL!

    • Stephanie Marchbanks 30.12.2010 12:13 pm Reply

      Much love out to you, Adam. ♥

  • Suzanne Macon Schmid 17.12.2010 6:13 am Reply

    Stephanie,

    Thanks for sending to me! We all have those we need to forgive and I believe God had you send this to me to get my attention! It was inspirational and appreciated!

    Suzanne

    • Stephanie Marchbanks 30.12.2010 12:14 pm Reply

      Thank you, Suzanne!

  • Kerri Bigham 17.12.2010 11:06 am Reply

    Forgiveness such a generous gift to give ……. which when given, returns to the givee with such great dividends. The best of which has seemed to be the "Freedom" from carrying the grudge for so long. Indeed it is a great gift to give, especially for the one doing the giving. Enjoy knowing the reason for the season, " Merry Christmas and a very Blessed New Year!"

    • Stephanie Marchbanks 30.12.2010 12:14 pm Reply

      Such a blessing you are Kerri. Thank you.

  • Sarah Moncus 17.12.2010 12:24 pm Reply

    Stephanie,

    My dear friend, I'm so glad to see you using your God-given talent of writing. It truly is a gift, like that of an artist or a craftsman, and you are using it well. Thanks for the blessing!

    • Stephanie Marchbanks 30.12.2010 12:15 pm Reply

      Such a gift to hear from you, Sarah, my dear, dear friend. ♥ Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

  • Frances Pool 17.12.2010 12:47 pm Reply

    How awesome! We cannot give a better gift then to forgive our brother or sister. By releasing them we release our selves. Thank you Stephanie.

    • Stephanie Marchbanks 30.12.2010 12:16 pm Reply

      Thank YOU, Fran. Love to you at Christmas, and always.

  • medical Technologist 23.12.2010 6:23 pm Reply

    Terrific work! This is the type of information that should be shared around the web. Shame on the search engines for not positioning this post higher!

    • Stephanie Marchbanks 30.12.2010 12:16 pm Reply

      Thank you for the input! Blessings to you.

  • steel tip darts 13.01.2011 6:54 am Reply

    Concise and written well, thanks much for the info

  • Rene' 03.03.2011 5:56 pm Reply

    Somehow I missed this post early on, but just had to say…..love it!

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